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Kayi bar kuch bato  ko ya kamo ko time dena chahiye isliye nhi ki ham is time kuch kr nhi skte, lekin isliye ki kya pta us chiz k hone ka abhi shi time na ho. kuch chizo ko khud hone do or kuch chizo ko apne hath me hi rkho.

Aisa nhi hota h ki jesa ham sochte h vesa hi sb soche ya bane lekin aisa jrur h ki jesa ham soche vese ham jrur bante h. sbne ye to suna hi hoga ki jruri ye nhi h ki ap kya banna chahte h jruri ye h ki ap kya bante h kuki log destination dekhenge , apki journey nhi.

Lekin apko phle apni journey dekhni h, ye apko decide krna h ki apki journey kesi ho. Ham sab apni journey bht achi bana skte h kuch aisi chizo ko dhyan me rkhte hue jo choti to bht hoti h pr roz hmare samne se guzarti h, vo h hmara “vyavahar” (behaviour). Jruri nhi h ki jesa dusra apke sath krega vesa hi ap krenge, ap khud ko represent kr rhe h dusre ko nhi, isliye apne reactions khud decide kre. Kuch na kuch to sb hi bann jate h, lekin us banne tk k safar me, sbse choti-choti chiz jo hoti h ham vhi bhul jate h, ki hme situations ko leke react kese krna h. jb b koi situation samne aaye ruko, suno or socho tb reply kro. Kisi b bat ko jaane mt do. 2 chize h, bat kro ya maaf kro .. bs bhul mt jao. Mene ek hi chiz sikhi h ki jha ham chizo ko avoid krna shuru krte h usi time se dusro ko lagta h ki sb thik h, lekin btao ki nhi tumhe ye thik nhi laga. Or sbse badi bat, maafi mangna or maaf krna sikho. Bat yaha chote bade ho jane ki nhi, bs relations ko smbhalne ki h.

Aisa jruri nhi h ki ek insan jo dusre k liye shi na ho vo tumhare liye b galat ho. Kisi k character ko leke Judgemental mt bano, hme andaza b nhi hoga ki kisi ki life me kya chl rha hoga, isliye kisi ko shi ya galat k box me mt rkho.

White or black kuch nhi hota, shades of grey hote h. (koi blkl shi or blkl galat nhi hota, sbme ye dono chize mixed hoti h), isliye mauka de, smjhe or samjhaye.