Kayi bar kuch bato ko ya kamo ko time dena chahiye isliye nhi ki
ham is time kuch kr nhi skte, lekin isliye ki kya pta us chiz k hone ka abhi
shi time na ho. kuch chizo ko khud hone do or kuch chizo ko apne hath me hi
rkho.
Aisa nhi hota h ki jesa
ham sochte h vesa hi sb soche ya bane lekin aisa jrur h ki jesa ham soche vese
ham jrur bante h. sbne ye to suna hi hoga ki jruri ye nhi h ki ap kya banna
chahte h jruri ye h ki ap kya bante h kuki log destination dekhenge , apki journey
nhi.
Lekin apko phle apni
journey dekhni h, ye apko decide krna h ki apki journey kesi ho. Ham sab apni journey
bht achi bana skte h kuch aisi chizo ko dhyan me rkhte hue jo choti to bht hoti
h pr roz hmare samne se guzarti h, vo h hmara “vyavahar” (behaviour). Jruri nhi
h ki jesa dusra apke sath krega vesa hi ap krenge, ap khud ko represent kr rhe
h dusre ko nhi, isliye apne reactions khud decide kre. Kuch na kuch to sb hi
bann jate h, lekin us banne tk k safar me, sbse choti-choti chiz jo hoti h ham
vhi bhul jate h, ki hme situations ko leke react kese krna h. jb b koi
situation samne aaye ruko, suno or socho tb reply kro. Kisi b bat ko jaane mt
do. 2 chize h, bat kro ya maaf kro .. bs bhul mt jao. Mene ek hi chiz sikhi h
ki jha ham chizo ko avoid krna shuru krte h usi time se dusro ko lagta h ki sb
thik h, lekin btao ki nhi tumhe ye thik nhi laga. Or sbse badi bat, maafi
mangna or maaf krna sikho. Bat yaha chote bade ho jane ki nhi, bs relations ko
smbhalne ki h.
Aisa jruri nhi h ki ek
insan jo dusre k liye shi na ho vo tumhare liye b galat ho. Kisi k character ko
leke Judgemental mt bano, hme andaza b nhi hoga ki kisi ki life me kya chl rha
hoga, isliye kisi ko shi ya galat k box me mt rkho.
White or black kuch nhi
hota, shades of grey hote h. (koi blkl shi or blkl galat nhi
hota, sbme ye dono chize mixed hoti h), isliye mauka de, smjhe or samjhaye.
